Cary Barbor's article Finding Real Love is somewhat of a self-help article about intimacy. Cary starts out the article by explaining that her articles main idea is four mental health professionals discussing how people destroy their intimate relationships and what they can do to fix them. The first subject talked about in Barbor's article is on the first decision we make about a relationship, which is the partner we choose. Dr. Ayala Malach says that …showed first 75 words of 766 total…

…showed last 75 words of 766 total…the same general effect. As far as personal experience goes I do not really have a lot because I have been in very many serious relationships. I had one relationship, which lasted two years, but I never had a problem with intimacy. At least I never thought there was a problem, perhaps she did and that's why were not together anymore. All in all it was a very good article that I truly enjoyed reading.